Thursday, April 29, 2010

Relationship?

Currently in Monash's comp lab... we(Me, Lenne, Steph, Char, Chloe) are s'pose to do our assignment 2 for B & E stats ya know, but everyone ended up Facebooking and such(including me), expected lol

Well, when I was FB-ing + Reading online manga, I saw a 'kinda meaningful' post, some of the words makes me feel like writing a blog post to tell those who've been complaining about their relationship.

"相愛容易相處難,婚姻與戀愛最大的不同,就是「戀愛看的是對方的優點」,而「婚姻卻是要包容對方的缺點」。 "


"在決定要不要嫁給(娶)他之前,應該先問自己:我愛的是他哪一個部份?這個部份是他的全部嗎?"
"在決定要不要離婚之前,也應該先問自己:我討厭的是他哪一個部份?而這個部份是他的全部嗎?"
 
"與其說緣份是遇到一個能讓自己欣賞與被欣賞優點的人,倒不如說是緣份是找到一個,能讓自己願意包容與被包容缺點的人。"
 
"以戀愛的心來看婚姻,自然是怎麼看怎麼失望,我認為這樣的人是還不適合結婚的,否則必然會將自己的痛苦建築在別人痛苦之上。"
 
"婚姻須要經營,任何事業可以失敗重來,婚姻卻沒有這種特質!"
 
.....etc.
 
There're tons of words that are making sense, it'll be time consuming if I post every single one of them, haha.... Well, I've shared the link in my Facebook, so feel free to read it there. :)
 
p/s: ah jie, Jas, Cath... read it! xD
 
-1.43pm-

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